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Meeting and Dating Indonesian Girls (2023)

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The following guide is a datasheet with all the essential information you'll need to know about meeting and dating Indonesian girls. It's a list of questions that people have asked me over time. I tried to answer them as concisely as possible so you won't lose time reading it. If you still have interrogations, please ask them in the comment section below.

10 Best Countries in Asia to Meet Girls Online (2023)

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Many Asian girls won't admit it but they are primarily looking for foreigners when using online dating apps and websites (if they weren't, why would they write their profiles in English?). As a European or as an American, this means you will get much interest from girls and all that will translate into an incredible number of dating opportunities. If you have 1 or 2 matches per day on Tinder in your home country, you can expect to get at least 20 or 30 per day upon landing in Asia. All guys have a different reaction to their newfound success. Some will go on a banging spree to compensate for years of sex drought. Others will become insanely picky, rejecting girls they would have dreamed of dating just a few months back. What is certain is that all of them feel much happier with this situation.

15 Sexiest Vietnamese Models

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Vietnamese girls are among the sexiest in Southeast Asia. If you've been to Saigon or Hanoi, you were probably amazed by the number of pretty girls you can meet, especially in nightclubs . The girls listed below come from various background: Singers, actresses, models, DJs, TV hosts, and influencers. Please leave a comment below if you think I forgot someone! About Dating Vietnamese Women Vietnamese women are open to the idea of dating foreigners, and they don't usually mind if you are older than them. Many are attracted to men who can offer them financial stability. If you are not living in Vietnam, the best way to meet Vietnamese girls is through  dating sites . You can try  Vietnamese Cupid  for instance, which has over 800,000 profiles. I recommend it because most of its users are looking for foreigners and they are okay to have a long distance relationship. You can try the site for free by using this link:  Sign Up - Vietnamese Cupid .

Best Online Dating Apps In Indonesia (Updated 2022)

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Whether you are holidaying in Bali or working in Jakarta, online dating is by far your best chance at finding someone special in Indonesia. It is now very common for Indonesians of any age or background to use dating apps, and the most popular ones have tens of thousands of members. Among my friends living in the country, the majority of them have met their partners online and it is no longer something to feel shameful about. To quote a famous pick-up line: No, you no longer need to pretend you've "met at the zoo" when you introduce your boyfriend or girlfriend to your parents. As dating apps became mainstream, the quality and the diversity of the profiles have improved as well. Gone are the days when dating apps were full of creeps and freaks. Nowadays, you can definitely find a potential wife or husband, someone attractive, smart, with a good job or career with whom you can build a serious relationship. That said, if you are a newcomer to the online dating scene in Ind

10 Best Gifts Ideas For Your Indonesian Girlfriend or Wife

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If you have a local girlfriend or wife, you certainly know that Indonesian girls absolutely love receiving gifts. In fact, I would say that being generous is one of the surest ways to keep your relationship strong and happy. The list below will give you 10 ideas of gifts that all Indonesian girls would love to receive. I've included links to trusted websites you can buy them from. Flowers

Best Dating Apps in Vietnam (Updated 2021)

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Meeting a girl in Vietnam has never been easier thanks to the Internet. Plenty of dating websites and apps have been launched in the past 10 years, giving you access to thousands of single Vietnamese girls from all backgrounds. For guys, Vietnam is like a treasure chest. Just upload a few decent pictures of yourself, write an interesting profile, and you are normally guaranteed to match with hundreds of pretty and smart girls. There is a catch, though: 95% of Vietnamese girls are looking for serious relationships, so forget about easy one-night stands. It may happen from time to time, but that's not the best country for that (check my article Best Countries to Meet Girls in Asia ). I've used all the dating apps and sites available in Vietnam. In this article, I'll tell you which ones work the best, whether you are an expat, a traveler, a Vietnamese, or even someone who's never been in the country.

12 Sexiest and Most Beautiful Asian Ladyboys

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Asian ladyboys are often considered the sexiest and most beautiful in the world. They tend to have very feminine features, slender bodies, and they also benefit from cheap access to cosmetic surgery. In some countries, in particular in Thailand, in Cambodia, or in the Philippines, being transgender is relatively well-accepted. As a result, it is not uncommon, even for a teenager, to have support from their parents to do hormone therapy at an early age. This will help them develop feminine traits instead of masculine ones. When meeting the most gorgeous Asian ladyboys in real life, it is virtually impossible to guess what their actual biological sex is. On the contrary, they look sexier than most women and, for that reason, they are often working as models, actresses, singers, entertainers, or influencers. If you are staying in Asia or planning a trip there, it is relatively easy to meet one, especially if you are in cities like Bangkok, Pattaya, or Manila. To make things eas

Meet and Date Indonesian Transsexuals in Bali/Jakarta

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In Indonesia, transsexuals, as well as all transgenders, are called "waria", a word made from the combination of "wanita" = "woman" and "pria" = "man". The term "shemale" is also used but it has a negative connotation. Most of them live in large urban centers, especially in Jakarta and in Bali, where they are more likely to live a "normal" life, away from the growing conservatism of a large part of the Indonesian population. This intolerance has risen in recent years, with Islamic groups targeting LGBT to galvanize their militants. As a result, transgenders in Indonesia are generally not as visible and numerous as in more open-minded countries like Thailand or the Philippines. Many Indonesian TS have no choice but to hide their feminity, and it is more difficult for them to have access to estrogen hormone therapy before their body changes. For some, unfortunately, the only possible escape is to run away f

20 Hottest Models and Girls from Kazakhstan (2021)

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I spent two weeks in Kazakhstan to write my Almaty Nightlife Guide . That gave me plenty of time to admire the beauty and diversity of Kazakh girls. I didn't expect that I would see so many gorgeous women in the country and it certainly made my stay much more enjoyable. Due to a lack of foreigners, it is fairly easy to meet them through dating apps like Tinder, Badoo or Mamba. You also have some stunning beauties on SeekingArrangement.com . On average, I would get around 30 matches per day, making Kazakhstan one of the easiest countries in the world to meet girls . In a city like Almaty, around 50% of the girls are Kazakh (Asian or Chinese features), 30% are Russian (Caucasian features) and 20% are mixed. To give you an overview of what these women look like, I've searched for the 20 hottest models and girls from Kazakhstan. If I forgot someone who deserves to be here, please just add the name in the comment section below.

Is It Better to Date a Javanese or a Sundanese Girl?

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Until today, I had never dared writing an article about ethnicity in Indonesia. I didn't want to appear racist and also because my knowledge on the subject is limited. As I'm growing older I start to care less, so here I am giving you advice on whether it is best to date/marry a Javanese or a Sundanese girl. Be aware that I am basing this whole piece on personal experience only. This is not a scientific paper, it's just entertainment. You may have a completely different opinion and I would love to hear it (especially if you are an Indonesian reader). Please just write a comment below. The two main ethnic groups in Indonesia are the Javanese (90 million people, 40% of the population) and the Sundanese (36 million people, 15.5% of the population). Both have distinct traditions, languages, cultures and cuisines. Javanese live mostly in East Java (Yogyakarta, Surabaya) while Sundanese are from the Bandung region. In Jakarta, most of the girls you meet will be eith

Finding a Sugar Baby or Daddy in Indonesia (Bali and Jakarta)

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If you are curious to understand how Sugar Dating works in Indonesia, this review was written for you. Here you'll find all you need to know to meet a Sugar Baby or Sugar Daddy in Indonesia (Bali, Jakarta, etc), how much it costs, and how to avoid problems. Please leave a comment at the end of the article if you have a personal experience to share. What is Sugar Dating?   In the past few years, new words have emerged in the world of  online dating : "Sugar Baby", "Sugar Daddy", and "Sugar Dating". Typically, a Sugar Baby is a young girl who, in exchange for money or gifts, gets involved in a romantic/sexual relationship with a wealthy older man (Sugar Daddy). Compared to normal prostitution or escort services, it is closer to a girlfriend experience, albeit a more straight-forward and open-minded one. Sugar babies will also normally expect to benefit from the experience and maturity of their "daddies" through mentorship. So

15 Best Dating Apps and Websites to Meet Asian Girls (2021)

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The key to successfully meeting girls in Asia is to master the right dating apps and websites. The first step for that is to familiarize yourself with the different options available and to understand the strengths/weaknesses of each. It is also important to know the specificities of each Asian country. Some apps or websites can be popular in Thailand but completely useless in the Philippines and vice versa.  There are 5 different types of online tools that you can use for meeting new girls in Asia: → Location-based apps on mobile (and sometimes desktop) An app that lets you find girls around you (for instance Tinder , Bumble, or Paktor). → Dating/Matchmaking websites on desktop only A website that connects you with selected profiles living in a certain area (for instance  AsianDating ) → Messaging apps An app primarily used for communicating with friends, but with a "look around" feature that allows you to meet new people (for instance WeChat or

10 Best Countries to Find a Wife or a Serious Girlfriend

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Are you struggling to meet a potential wife in your home country? Are you unsatisfied with your dating life at home? If yes, maybe you should expand your horizons and start looking for love abroad. In most cases, if you target the right countries, you are almost certain to find girls that are much better than the ones you could have hoped for back home. I have traveled to more than 60 countries in the past 4 years and I can tell you exactly where you should start looking for a serious relationship. I know where you will find the prettiest, sweetest, most caring women in the world. I can also tell you what you should be cautious about and how to avoid the most common scams. In the countries below, even if you are just a regular guy with a normal job and an average look, you should be able to be successful within just a few weeks or months. You can try your luck on the dating sites I recommend (all are free to register) and you will see for yourself. SeekingArrange

13 Most Beautiful Japanese Models and Gravure Idols

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Gravure idols are the Japanese equivalent to FHM models. They appear on the front page of male-oriented magazines, wearing sexy lingerie or swimsuits, or they shoot videos in which they playfully tease men with suggestive moves. They will rarely make nudes, or do pornographic movies, though some JAV actresses did start as gravure idols. On the contrary, for the most talented and beautiful models, the final objective is to become a mainstream actress or singer. That's what happened with most of the girls listed below. How to Meet Gravure Idols? One thing you should know is that it is possible to meet and date famous gravure idols, for instance by using the services of an elite dating club like Universe  (based in Tokyo and Singapore). Basically, Universe helps you to set up dates with Japanese women, in exchange for a fee that varies between US$300 and US$1,500. It is more expensive than a sugar dating website like Seeking , but you have access to more beautifu

Online Prostitution is Booming in Indonesia

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With the current crackdown on red-light districts and massage parlours everywhere in the country, for instance in Kalijodo in Jakarta or Dolly in Surabaya, online prostitution has been booming in Indonesia. Surprisingly, sexual services are not necessarily advertised through specific adult dating sites.  Indeed, many of them, even sugar dating sites like SeekingArrangement , or swinging ones like   Adult Friend Finder , are blocked by the government and only available if you download a VPN (see Best VPN for Indonesia to see how to do). Prostitutes, pimps, and mafias use mainstream websites and apps  instead, like Facebook, Twitter, WeChat, BeeTalk, Instagram, Badoo or Tinder . If you are using any of these, you have probably noticed that there are more and more profiles of prostitutes, to the point that it can ruin the experience for "normal" users. This is the case on WeChat. They have a feature called "Look Around" that can be used to meet people

Top 20 Hottest Indonesian FHM Models

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In this review, I will present you the hottest, sexiest, most beautiful Indonesian girls who have been modeling for men's magazines such as FHM, Popular, Maxim, Male, Gress and Sooperboy. The girls listed below come from all Indonesian ethnicities, but they are generally from Javanese, Bataknese, Sundanese or Manadonese descent. Some also have mixed blood. They are posing in lingerie, in bikini or simply wearing exciting dresses. Don't be a prude, even in conservative Indonesia, there is nothing against it. There are probably more names to add to the list, don't hesitate to comment below if you think of someone. Ratu Kirana Though this Top 20 is not in any particular order, I must say that Ratu Kirana is my favorite. Born in 1988 and measuring 1,68m, she is the perfect incarnation of Indonesian beauty. Photo Credit: Christian Sagala

Top 30 Hottest Filipina and Pinay FHM Models

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This ranking of the 30 Hottest Filipina FHM Models is a follow-up to one of my most read articles Top 20 Hottest Indonesian FHM Models . I also wrote it after spending a few weeks trying Manila Nightlife . We often say that Indonesian girls look similar to Filipinas/Pinays but, as you can see below, they are actually rather different. They tend to look more "European" and to have a fairer skin. The country is less conservative as well so it is not rare for some of the models below to do nude or topless shots. I took most photos from the girls' Instagram, Facebook or Twitter account. Here are the 30 girls, ranked in no particular order. Don't hesitate to add a name in the comment section below if you think I forgot someone.

How to Meet Beautiful Japanese Girls? (JAV Actresses, Gravure Models, etc...)

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Meeting Japanese girls is definitely not as easy as meeting other Asian girls. You cannot just pop up in the country and expect to have a girlfriend the day after. You will need much more time and, in the end, you probably won't end up with a girl as pretty as you had wished. Also, before anything happens in the bedroom, you'll have to show that you are serious, stable and committed. That does not sound really fun, right? Now, what if I told you that there is a way to have easy dates with open-minded, young and beautiful Japanese girls, including gravure models and even JAV porn stars? The secret is to become a member of a social/dating club. Also called "Kousai club", these are the Japanese equivalent to what we call "Sugar Dating". It allows young Japanese girls to meet and date wealthy older men who can offer them a more luxurious lifestyle. In this article, I will introduce you to the most famous dating club in Japan, Universe C

11 Sexiest Indonesian Actresses

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In this article, I will give you the names and photos of the 11 sexiest and most beautiful Indonesian actresses who are still active as of today. I selected only natural beauties: No girls with color contact lenses, weird eyebrows, botox injections or lips enhancements. I also chose girls who are still young with a promising career ahead. For the "old" ones, you can check my review 10 Sexiest Indonesian Women . As it is often the case in Indonesia, many of the following actresses are also models and singers. You can know more about them by clicking on their name, it links to their Instagram accounts (from where I took most of the photos). Advertising: About  Dating Indonesian Women The best way to meet normal Indonesian girls who are smart, independent and educated, is to use dating websites. Among them, Tinder works well with expats and younger tourists, but not so much with others. If you not staying in Indonesia, I recommend trying  Indonesian Cupi

25 Prettiest Mixed-Race Indonesian Girls

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If you want to compliment an Indonesian girl, just tell her that she looks mixed and you'll make her day. While I tend to prefer girls who look 100% local, the ones that have a tiny bit of foreign blood are often seen as the most beautiful for many Indonesians. Unsurprisingly, those girls (and guys) are over-represented among celebrities: Countless of actors, singers and TV stars are "blasteran", the word for mixed-race people. This is also true among models and beauty pageants contestants. I listed a few here but you can see more on my review 34 Most Beautiful Miss Indonesia . All the girls I chose are mixed with at least one "bule" (white) parent. I would have loved adding girls with Asian (particularly Japanese, Vietnamese, Korean), Arab, Indian, Latino or Black ethnicities, but I didn't find many. If you have a name worth checking, please leave a comment below and I'll be happy to add her name here. Salvita Decorte The actress is th