Ayam bars in Jakarta and normal bars?

By The Jakarta Team

For an updated article about nightlife in Jakarta in 2014, please visit this link: Jakarta Nightlife Update 2014.

Ayam bars refer to bars where most of the girls are prostitutes or hostesses. In the clubs where expats go, prostitution is quite usual but it is much more subtle than in the places frequented by locals. Girls may ask for money directly, but they may also be looking for "taxi money" only, meaning that she will tell you in the morning she needs money to go back home and she will expect you to pay for it. The other option is to ask for "gifts": Mobile phone, jewellery, clothes, etc... After a short period, they will also probably have a brother, an uncle or a cow who's sick, and who can only be cured if you wire them a thousand bucks... Don't be stupid, as soon as she asks you for money, just end the relationship. I'm not saying you should never give anything, but at least use your brain to sort what is true and what is just lies.

There are basically 3 areas where you will find prostitutes bars in Jakarta:
 
1) Blok M, also called Jalan Falatehan, is where American and English older expats go. Not all the bars there have prostitutes (Sportmans and One Tree Bar are ayam-free for instance), but most do. The girls there are mostly freelance, sometimes with a boyfriend pimp. If you ask the girls, almost all of them will tell you they have a boyfriend in Australia, England, America, or offshore... but in spite of that, they are still in a bar, trying to get another guy for the night. One more time, be extremely careful when engaging in emotional relationships with these girls because you do not want to be attached to someone who screws a half dozen guy a month for 50 bucks. Im not saying it's bad, i'm saying it messes up your brain. Near Jalan Falatehan, you also have what we call "Little Tokyo", which is an even larger red light district than Blok M, only that this one caters more exclusively to the entertainment needs of Korean and Japanese people. There are dozens of bars and karaokes there, but apart from the above-mentioned nationalities, few people go there.

2) North Jakarta and the city's peripherical areas (Taman Anggrek, Daan Mogot, etc..) where most local people will go in the one-stop entertainment nightclubs (with karaoke, massage parlour, bars, clubs, spa and sometimes casinos all under one roof) or other local curiosities such as massage bars, panti pijat, tempat dugem... In these places, the girls are usually under contract with the management, and though they get a correct salary for indonesian standards, they have very poor perspectives. There are also many high-class prostitutes and escort girls in Kota (the most beautiful girls are not to be found in Blok M, nor in Hotel bars, but in places like Alexis, Golden Crown, Malioboro, Sun City, which also "import" girls from China, Thailand, Russia, Uzbekistan, and even Spain!). They earn comfortable salaries and they often have some regular customers who pay them cars, houses, etc... Their salaries can be over 10,000$/month for the top prostitutes.


3) Hotel bars such as B.A.T.S in Hotel Shangri-La, Tiga Puluh in Hotel Le Meridien, or CJ in Hotel Mulia, for travellers, with also quite many expats. Girls there can be very interesting sometimes, with fun, smart personalities, yet obsessed with money, Blackberries and Louis Vuitton. Many can be quite good party-friends, especially if you want to go party some place else, since most of the times, the same girls will move from BATS after it closes to Top Gun (Blok M) or to Stadium.

Normal bars and clubs are geographically more limited to the center : Menteng, Plaza Indonesia, Kuningan, and South Jakarta: Gatot Subroto, Kemang, Senayan.

In these places, if you dress appropriately and look ok, you should not have too much trouble meeting ladies. The easiest spot to get a normal girl (that you won't pay for sex) is Red Square I think and it is so true that it kind of became the only place most expats go to because you are almost certain to score each time you are there. Actually, in other places, it is not difficult either, but you may only get a phone number, or have to be a little patient...

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  1. You dont mention bars or club mostly for bigirls or lesbian, or swinger community. Im looking forward this kind spot. Thanks.

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  2. I was in a place called Matra 21 the other night and there was quite many lesbians there and bi-sexuals.. I have seen many also in comedy cafe and in Red Square, you should check those places

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  3. Where is the place to find the best ladyboys in Town?

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  4. There are many "bencong" (indonesian shemale/ladyboys) near Manggarai rail station, around the Taman Lawang area... it's very very famous...

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  5. Red Square? Isnt Red Square is a high class bar in Jakarta? How can that there are "free" girls there? And sex for free? not sure unless you got brad pitt face on you. hahha. Anyway, i would like to grab some of your article and put in on my site. Could we do some exchange link if you dont mind? please send reply to my email. Looking forward for your email. silverguilty@yahoo.com. Salam Indonesia!!

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  6. Red Square has many hookers,... but you can get sex for free if you look like bule!!

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  7. I agree if you dont look like bule you cant get sex for free in Red Square. So where do we go to find sex for free if we are Black?

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  8. well from what iv seen alot of the black africans are not that trusted by asians woman anymore due to i.d fraud/money tranfer scams etc you may end up spending alot of time proveing that your one of the good none fraud making africans i did find soon as the girls found out that im black british and from london thay was happy and more friendly but i must say african brothers will always have problems unless thay can prove who thay realy are and mean no harm

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  9. how is the nightlife for chinese guys?do the indonesian girls want only Western guys or do they have a thing for chinese too?

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  10. Are you from mainland China or Malay Chinese?

    I know that Malay-Chinese are very popular in the North, especially in Sun City, Malioboro, Club 36... I dont know about people from PRC... anybody can comment?

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  11. Can any body tell me which hotel and area I can stay in jakarta to get all in one or nearby places and how much girls coasts usually?

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  12. With bar- and similar girls is it not about westeners or chinese or whatever. It's about MONEY.

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  13. hmm...i'm just wondering. will this girls still entertain malaysian man like me?

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  14. In my opinion, Indonesian girls are more attracted to white men than other Asian men, but still, Malaysian/Singapourian/Korean have a chance if they are ready to get involve in a serious relationship

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  15. I wouldn't go for malay guy!! It's a pride thing you see...

    you can get ayam for less than 20K rupiahs on hawker food... you can either fried it or BBQ it, they usually come with rice and hot tea.

    enjoy!!

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  16. Now thats funny Indo gal! ha!

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  17. which club i can go and pick up ladyboys?

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  18. Only in Moonlight club in Kota.. or else you can try driving around Taman Lawang area with your car

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  19. is moon light club save to go in alone.... is the drinks there cheap? what kind of music they play ? is the club safe?

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  20. this writer is good, hilarious, anyway read on some racist remarks of chinese or african black man etc...hey how about malaysian hindu guy??? Bali is hindu....

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  21. Where in bsd city can I find some action?

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  22. Nice articles. Can you suggest some place where Indians can get girls for causal relationship ?

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  23. I will be at the sultan hotel, is there any bar with girls there?
    I'm from Europe

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  24. Well you can try the bar johan but it's quite tricky there. If ur looking for fun in jkt u should go to Alexis. Find mami Egi ( a pimp) and say ur a guess of Beeman. U'll be treated well.

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  25. how about Bruneians?

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  26. Howzit, Im from south africa and will be traveling to Jakarta and then to Bali soon. I will be looking for company throughout my stay in Indonesia and was wanting to know what the possibilities are for an Indian guy from South Africa, hooking up with woman from Indonesia on a casual relationship basis

    thanx

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  27. I'm an indonesian girl, and I can tell you that most educated girls like me will not care about your country/color of skin, as long as you treat them nicely. Most Indonesian girls are not familiar with black people, but they are not intolerant. White people are not always so popular because there are many stories of them having multiple girlfriends. Actually all bules don't have the same reputation. For Indians, there is a positive "bollywood factor". Brunei, I've never met one, but I would imagine same as Malaysian or Singaporean: They can be quite arrogant and materialistic.

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  28. Hi

    What are the chances of finding a decent good looking Indonesian woman and marrying her there. Is an taking her back to my country. Is it easy to accomplish?

    Thanx

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  29. It's easy to accomplish, but it works only if you live in Jakarta and take your time. If you come one week and hope to marry someone, you will find only girls from poor backgrounds that will be interested only in your money. My advice is that you try to meet girls online, for instance through facebook, learn to know them, and then only meet them in person. There is no easy way to get married if you want to find real happiness.

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  30. You guys (europeans) are strange , you have a great looking gearls in all over europe and still looking for asians?? i really can't understand this , i am middle eastern got a girl friend from france and i really can't compare her with all asian girls ( as all european girls) , came to indonesia with her mostly 3 times , will not forget these days ,

    any way what i am trying to say here is why the hick you are looking for asians when u got one of the most beautiful girls in the world??? get a girl with you to jakarta and thats it.

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  31. Europeans are not strange, dd not generalise please. It is very normal for some European men to like Asian woman as they are not as independent as their European counterparts.

    Asian women treat men differently and are good looking too, why would white girls look better?

    Funny thing though is that white girls always want to have a tan and that Asian girls try to avoid the sun and try to be "white"...

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  32. Where should I go if I want to bring a girl back to my hotel. I am a Malaysian-Chinese. If I pay the girl overnite, how much shall I commit ?

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  33. Im coming to Jakarta tomorrow for the first time and staying in Kelapa Gading. Can anyone advise which bars/clubs have the hottest girls? I dont mind paying 500k or 1mn for a girl.

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  34. In Kelapa Gading, go to King Cross... if you are ready to move a bit in taxi, try malio club or alexis or classic or suncity or illigals (they are all about 20 minutes away)

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  35. Hahaha! well, hello :) i'd fun reading articles from ur web, great source i might say. Excuse the laugh, was reading most of the comments above :)

    Like the rest, i am traveling in to Indonesia on the 18 of July, i'll be in Jkt 1st, before moving to Pekan Baru, an then back to Jkt on th 19. It would be my 1st time in Jkt and i only have 1 night.

    I want to keep it fun, socialize, drinks n then of around the city for some photography.

    I know i'll be smacked in the central cuz that is where i'll have my 1st video shoot, so where can i go to mingle? not to expensive, club hopping probably, but most of all, friendly groups.

    2 dudes, below 30's and straight! dont u forget that, lol!

    Thanks, sampe ketemu lgi, Jkt ere i come!

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  36. thibaud@jakarta100bars.comJuly 9, 2011 at 9:59 PM

    Hi Lexi,

    if the money is tight and you want to meet people, you should probably go to Jalan Jaksa, the backpacker area in Jakarta. It is not very big, but you have a few friendly bars with a mixed crowd of locals, expats and travellers. All those places are among the cheapest in Jakarta.

    I see you'll be there on a Monday. If you feel like going somewhere else than Jaksa, very few places will be happening on that day. BATS in Shangri-La is busy everyday but I don't think that's what you are looking for... Maybe you'll like Stadium, which can be quite fun and is always impressive.

    Drop me a mail if you want to have a beer, I'll be on holiday at that time: thibaud@jakarta100bars.com

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  37. Hello thibaud, well i'll be there on the 18th, but shortly that evening im off to pekan baru for another shoot. Will be back in Jkt on 19th evening.

    Thank u for the heads up, i brought my protege along, young kid who about to graduate college, im giving him as much exposure as possible.

    We might do Stadium (it would be a lost if i dont). But before that, i might checkout jaksa 1st :)

    Anyway im flying in from KL. i do have teman2 anak indo, but we lost contact for sometime now, so its a shame coming into indonesia without any interaction with locals, as i'd found out, im 1/3 indo! the other 2 parts are malay and thai, what away to strike a conversation ya :)

    Will email u on the offer, thank u so much :)

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  38. I am booked into Park lane hotel, where to I need to travel to for some straight local girls looking for good food night out together.

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  39. Hello.

    There's a good place to chill out in BSD, Tangerang. It is called "Seven Oaks - Old English Pub". Good ambience, good surroundings too. There's always live music. It will be full of crowd during the weekends -never been there on weekdays, tho.
    The guests are mostly British, scottish and irish guys. It looks like free-prostitutes place. but who knows? I always go there with my girlfriends-we're english teachers (Indo, british, canadian, american).

    The food isn't too expensieve-typical of pub's food. There's a free drink for girls during 8-10pm on the weekend.

    There's a pool table too on the 2nd story.

    Cheers!!

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  40. were staying at the Sheraton Bandera. where are the bars near here to pick up some nice girls?

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  41. The location of Sheraton Bandara sucks.. it's near the airport, but far from all the hotspots in the city.. you'll have to take a cab for 30 min anywhere you want to go to..

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  42. if you pull a girl in bats, then where do you go?

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  43. I am staying at the Grand Hyatt till the 30th August 2011 and would love to check out the local clubbing scene, meet a nice local girl and take her back to my room and treat her like a lady. Anyone like to join please drop me a line alternate2828@live.co.uk

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  44. i heard that shangri-la hotel provide a uzbekistan and china hookers, how much it will cost me?
    haha sorry im asking the rude question :)

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  45. Shangri-La is a 5-star hotel and it's not they purpose to provide foreign hookers... they have BATS with tons of Indonesian girls inside though... Malioboro and Alexis have russian, uzbek, thai, etc and it's quite pricey, like 200$ for an hour..

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  46. Hi.
    Norwegian Journalist wisiting Jakarta from Sunday 28th Aug is looking for girls guiding me through the nighlife. I shall not write about the nightlife but I enjoy a good bar-to-bar tour with some good guides.

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  47. Then how to find a good western guy in their 50s who is into serious relationship then? Guess this is not the site for this comment?

    Georgina

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  48. hey Steven if you want we can have a drink or smth I'll be visiting JKT starting Sep.1 for 3 days. im not a girl but im not gay either & it could be funner hanging out in 2 rather than solo :) email me if u want, jeejaay@yahoo.com. Cheers!

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  49. I'm an Indonesian women and its really annoying to know male foreigners tend to treat us girls as easy and only sex oriented.

    Just because you have a dick doesn't mean you have to act like one. Have a little more respect and specially please consider our eastern culture and norm. After all you're all are guests here. Don't take advantage of our eastern hospitality.

    I'm not saying all foreigners are bad. I do have several really good friends that are foreigners, male and female. But there are occasions where I drink in a bar, have a conversation with someone and ending up with him asking me to come to his hotel. And the worst pick up line I've had was "I have money" WTF. Not all Indonesian women that talks to you foreigners wants your money or have sex with you. Maybe its common in your home country to do that, but this isn't your home country.

    Thank you for all of you that are still decent and civilized to treat us Indonesian women with respect. But for the rest, may you all live long with blazing STD's spawning from your crotch :)

    Cheers!

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  50. Katia, female expat from GermanyAugust 24, 2011 at 12:37 AM

    My vision of the relationship between Indonesian men an Western women is not very different from what you describe... Many men act like dicks, expats and Indonesians alike..

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  51. I love this website... May be because i'm french too :p. This article is very interesting because i'm an expat, i've been living here for some months already and I'm trying to avoid the prostitutes places... I mean i don't really get the point in having girls going around me for my money (that I don't have)... Isn't much more enhancive to have girls talk to you because they like you ? Well may be i can say that because i'm still 25yo. But that might be the problem here... Hard to find a very pretty girl who is not interested by money... Even though model agent stop me in the street... Where could i find them ?

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  52. I am an Korean-American man who will be traveling with a male friend to JKT in mid-October. Could someone advise me in which area I should book my hotel and recommend a few nice hotels around $100 range? I will be sightseeing during daytime & probably go to clubs at night.

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  53. if you find the girl(s) on the Club, they might be closed to 'have fun-sex or money-'.. probably.

    Go Find a girl from other place... You will find the Right-one.

    Happy Hunting...!!

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  54. Where on earth to the western girls living in Jakarta go to find "decent" men?

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  55. It's called the West hon! Sorry. Unless your looking for s "decent" Muslim Indo man, then you're in HEAVEN!

    Anyhoo, on the topic of how much to pay...you should NEVER pay more than Rp 300,000 for all night and everything! If you are paying $200 for an hour you've completely lost the plot. I've pulled some really nice, hot and fun gals out of Block M for around $30 USD for all nite and actually they stayed the whole next day cause I'm fun and friendly and chubby and clean and funny and courteous and a good cook.

    Yours truly,

    The King of Jakarta.

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  56. korean-american...
    I guest you can stay near menteng... it's downtown... you can walk to the mall on day time and at night there are several bars there

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  57. may i know the girl we pick up from disco will stay over night or not? Can anybody ttell whats the market price?

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  58. Are there any swinger/group sex places in JKT?

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  59. so ive been living in asia for 5 years now and this will be my first time to jakarta (in Jan) and was wondering how safe it is to walk around at night...i live in malaysia right now and KL isnt that safe..while i find bangkok, vietnam, china est. quite safe...should i mostly rely on taxis or is walking places at night safe?

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  60. i'm writing this for the 25yo french guy,and for the rest of the guys here for that matter, there are a lot of decent girls out there who are not only looking for robbing your money and taking all advantages from you. even those in coffee shops or book stores or even restaurants are nice decent well-educated girls and you can easily spot them.

    and to the anonymous right before me, walking around at nights in several places in jakarta might not be safe, so i suggest you take taxis, (express - the white one- or bluebird - the blue one-) make sure it really is express or blue bird, because there are a lot of taxis that look like them but actually they're not.

    -D

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  61. thanx for the help previous anonymous...so being that im bout 30 (told i look younger)...where should i go? should i go to x2 or go with the youngens in kemang? i am coming alone and dont know anyone in jakarta lol

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  62. I was wondering if anyone could advise me in terms of ideal places for meeting open minded girls. I am looking for an Indonesian company to guide me to see the place, through their perspective

    indian.digital.i@gmail.com

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  63. I worked at law firm for about 5 years & a lot of my client (which is expatriate) have problem with their hooker ex. The girl take their passport, walet, kitas or other important document that always bring while you were travelling in other country only to have more money from you.

    If not what that happen then they come to us (the expatriate) because they marry a wrong person like gold digger which become a huge problem for expatriate later.

    My point is please be carefull with the women you choose don't make random selected. If you choose wrong than I will have a lot of task to do to help other expatriate lol and you should pay more to my office too lol

    Sorry if my english not perfect :)

    Welcome to jakarta & enjoy it ;)

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  64. I'm following an internship here in Jakarta for the following months and I'm from the Netherlands, 22 years old male and I'm staying in Jakarta Kemang.

    Any people that wanna hang out and party and maybe wanna show me around? (girls or dudes doesn't matter, no homo and I'm not looking for sex just for people that want to have a good time).
    Cause it's always more fun to go to a club with a friend than by myself.

    My e-mail adress is :
    dutchkemang@gmail.com

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  65. im staying right now @Mulia hotel. My first time here in Jakarta. From the staff, they said, CJ's bar is good to hang out. Anyone who can give advise how to mingle with gurls here?

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  66. Next year I planning to visit Jakarta, will stay near Mangga Besar, any tips for nice local girl ?

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  67. Im a filipino, do i have any chances here in jakarta? Ill be staying for a year.. I like this page, people are blatantly honest its funny.. :)

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  68. Any good salsa clubs that have a salsa night in or around Kemang area on Sunday? I am here for just 2 nights. Saturday night shall be in Stadium which leaves out only sunday night :)

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  69. You cant be a french, you have a very decent sense of humour. :-P thing that i`ve never found while staying in france.

    Mel

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  70. Great place for knoweldge

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  71. Indonesian girls and women are just plain lovely. Whatever you are looking for you will find it in Indonesia, in a nicer version than in other Asian countries. It's a good deal for everyone, they like my white skin and I like their brown skin and lovely anatomy. I don't look as good as in my twenties but have a bit more money now, which goes a long way here. Met an anglophone westerner in his 50s here who is living in a village in Java with his young wife and he enjoys every minute he spends with her. It's a man's paradise, do not judge the girls but treat them well and don't forget that there are still 40 million people in Indonesia who don't know where their next meal is coming from.

    Bule

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  72. What a fun website - I save it as my favourite :). Thanks for everybody and especially for 'Thibaud'.

    As a javanese girl married and living in UK now, I could relate and have understanding with all (most?) of you here, eventhough I came from different perspectives and experiences.

    In the past (before I moved and live in UK) I looked down to westerners in Indonesia. I grew up in Jakarta, middle class family with an excellent value of life (so proud being a javese :)), went to the best private school and best uni in Indonesia. Have an excellent life and career (10 years in fashion and model, been around to fashion places in the world) and yes, I use Indonesian PUBLIC TRANSPORT to go around in Indonesia and in UK/Europe and USA. I love it!! I hate driving (I had a driver when I had a car) and using taxi when I feel tired chasing around the bus or train.

    Sinced I married an english guy and moved to UK, my perception about 'bule' in general is change - not looking down anymore. You are just like us, Indonesian. Some are nice and some are bad, educated or not educated, pretty or not pretty, etc.

    One thing, racism is banned in here in UK, or at least you could bring the case up to the court! Should be in Indonesia too. Lots of westerners/chinese are quite racist to Indonesian, but I did the same to westerners (not to chinese, though). Apology and I should be punished actually :)

    Anyway, all the differences in us making us special and make the world so colourful. Enjoy it! :)) Ta x

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  73. Reading 90% of expats in Indonesia cheating on their girlfriends or wives makes me cringe. I come from a good family, conservative and well educated, married a highly educated American man whom I thought a very decent guy, just to find out lately, after 31 years of marriage, he cheated on me with prostitutes while we were seriously dating and even after we got married, transmitted STD to me which I did not what it was then.
    Now our marriage is shattered, relationship is broken.
    Too bad men do not know how to appreciate good girls, all they care are their own pleasure, finding hookers and having sex.
    To the guys who are looking for good girls I hope you will treat them well and be faithful.

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  74. As long Indonesia don't step up their game, it will be left behind and be depended on foreigners. Yes its a man s paradise for foreigners as it's almost programmed in their mind that foreigners are better. In other countries i lived ( Cambodia,Vietnam) I dont see a foreign news reader Berita satu or bule who travels around for a travel programme????wtf.So its pretty institutionalized here that the bule is better than locals. I ve never heard that locals are looking down on bules.

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  75. I'm a 26 year old male who is moving to Jakarta in August. I'll be living in Kemang and have a few local friends to help me get set up with social circles etc but I was also wanting to meet some young foreigners living in JKT. Where're the hang out spots for us because all I can see here (foriegn men wise) is mainly old expats (and most likely ugly due to their obsession with ayam). I just wanna mix with people my own age who wanna have fun but aren't trying ro roll back the years.

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  76. In my humble opinion, the answer to your question very much depends on your nationality and (sorry to speak) social economic status. Considering the fact that Kemang is an elite, middle to upper class residency. I think it would be safe for me to assume that you are a financially established person (feel free to correct me if I'm wrong). Therefore, I'd recommend the following venues for you to visit: (1) Senayan: X2, Red Square (2) Gatot Subroto: Dragonfly, Blowfish (3) Kuningan: Loewy Bar & Resto (4) Plaza Indonesia: Hard Rock, Immigrant --- You'd easily spot foreigners of your age and (social stature) lurking around these parts. I wouldn't recommend you hunting for new friends around Kemang during weekends since the clubs and bars there are often overrun by teenagers (no offense to the teens). Unless of course you have no problem befriending people that are younger than yourself. You can try browsing through the following venues in Kemang: Star Deli, Eastern Promise, Barcode, Largo, Beer Garden, Brew, Moe's Place, Splash and Murphy's Irish Pub Kemang. In addition, as mentioned by the author of this website, unless you plan on hunting for prostitutes (sorry to speak), avoid the northern parts of this city. I hope you enjoy living in Jakarta :D Happy hunting my friend!

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  77. I agree with indo girl above. Websites like this that advise foreigners on how and where to find local girls for free or for a fee in Indonesia are a disgrace and should be banned.

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  78. Low life will find other low life, to have empty sex and cheat each other. This website just helps the new arrivals get orientated.

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  79. To the previous comment:

    This website is about Jakarta nightlife. Jakarta nightlife is what it is, this website describes it.

    If you don't like the website, change Jakarta.

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  80. Hi, what would be the Jakarta equivalent of Soi 6 in Pattaya? I don't want to waste my time trying to pick up girls in bars or discos. Nothing beats a good old lane of cheap brothels...

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  81. Hows the JW Marriott's action. Any good bars / girls close by?

    Thanks

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  82. I'll be in Jakarta staying in morrissey apartment. I would love to meet up with some friends for decent conversation and hang out. I'm a 34 yrs old male.

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  83. Can anyone tell me the best place to go for night entertainment if u are staying at menara peninsula?

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  84. Stay away from Blok M, CJs, Red Square. Best chicks are at X2 and Dragonfly, all young, rich and horny!

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  85. If you are interested to have friendship but would not ask for sex ..I am women good caring can help you hi expats who love to describe what indonesian Is ..

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  86. hi , to women good caring , i am here take me :)

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  87. any fun entertainment place in palembang city ? as i got stuck here :(

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  88. there are places like Face Bar/Lanna Thai where many sexy girls take their bule bf there as they know its upscale and it's a place where you can intimate dine .. the bar is free from chickens though.

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  89. will come to Jakarta next week and want to find a clube with an older crowd. 40-60's. I am a young 55 but feel more comfortable with older ladies. Ok if ayam or not. really looking for a good bar, nightclube with music and dancing.

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  90. I'm booked to stay at the Aston Marina, which is in Ancol. I have no clue about the nightlife there, since I was at Sari Pan Pacific earlier. So any info on picking up women, bars etc. would be helpful

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  91. as mentioned in Central Jakarta go to Face Bar/Lanna Thai , Cork & Screw for a date then go later to Immigrant they are very close to each other and save time. Many expats there and you wont feel out of place

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  92. Where is the best place to stay in Jakarta where one can get good girls for the night?

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  93. Red Square is still in may 2012 the place to pick up girls. Especially on Friday night, the place is brimming with party girls and hookers. It is not true that any guy with a white face can pick up girls in Red Square (apart from hookers of course) That is why the place is frequented by mostly young expats and tourists. If you are young you have no trouble even now to get a girl for free in Red Square. If you are tall but not young anymore but bule, you can also still pick up a gorgeous girl for free as my Bosnian pal Dragan proved to me last friday. Dragan is 48 years old but tall and he got lots of attention. If you are young and tall you obviously will always get a beautiful girl in the place for free.

    If you are older and short you but have a lot of charisma and charm, you might still pull a girl for free but it already becomes more difficult.

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  94. Being a bule of 50, Aussie,(and looking for a good indonesian girl,) I have been traveling in and out of Indonesia for the past 15 years most of all the normal girls I meet just want to be treated with a bit of respect, their great girls their smart and funny, bali girls are the same just stay away from hookers, your'll just get ripped off. this web site is good. johnnyastewart@gmail.com

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  95. Dear All,
    Next week im gonna stay at Alila Hotel in Jakarta. Is there any chance I can get info on picking up women, bars etc.

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  96. This is a very interesting site

    Thanks for all the info

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  97. i be in jakarta nxt week and stay at swissbel hotel...any nice place or lounge to drink and see ladies ?

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  98. Hey people, im goin to jakarta in 2 weeks.. for the first time.. and i just wanted to know if there are areas which are quite unsafe for foriegners... there will be 7 of us.. 4 white guys and 3 asian guys.. lol... i know it sounds weird for asking but.. we have no idea what it will be like over there... thanks people.. =D

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  99. ... ohh and also.. where are the red light district areas.?? we will be staying in Central Jakarta ... which clubs are really seedy? i wanna know all about them.. hehehe.. =P~

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  100. ..and btw.. WTF is BULE? LOLOL ....

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  101. Me and all my friends think that now Red Square is not the same as it used to be.
    Since one year ago, it has became a place full of hookers with no fun.
    Before, it was reltively easy to meet a girl and have an affair (or whatever).

    What do you think?... Do you agree with me?...

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    1. I agree absolutely with you. Since one year ago, Red Square is full of Hookers. It,s disgusting to go there for all of us that used to go there for meeting normal girls.... and -as you say- it was pretty easy to succed in not sleeping alone. The atmosphere there is now different from what it used to be. Also my friends and I, have decided not to go there any more.

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  102. Oh...As a normal Indonesian woman, I'm so embarrassed reading all this stuff.

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  103. It is rather a bit not normal that you have been reading all this and now even commenting!!

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  104. well ..that's the fact guys... Jakarta is full of night (and naughty) entertainment ... i guess that why some foriegner (expecially aussy, singapore ) like to spent their holiday @ jakarta

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  105. You talk about indonesian girls as if they are a piece of meat to barter over. I hope your wives and girlfriends are screwing every man in town while your in indonesia contracting an std.

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  106. damm, Ive booked a place in Swiss Bel-Hotel. Didnt know it's the red light district. Is it safe to move around in the night? BTW, it's my virgin trip to JKT.

    Any clean club to recommend where we can pick-up girls? am a sucker for looks :)

    Oh, & btw, are the girls ok with pan-asian guy?

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  107. @the one who booked at swissbel,

    yeah that place is red district called mangga besar. many clubs near your place, such as CLUB36, stadiums, crown. but i suggest u come to club36 or crown, but make sure u travel with taxi (blue bird taxi)

    but this month is a ramadhan month (muslim holy month) i'm not sure every clubs open (some open, but looks like closed) coz its ilegal to open clubs when ramadhan month.

    Dave

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    1. Hi Dave,
      Thanks for the advive. Ill only be heading there on the 3rd week of September. Speaking of that, I believe it's the Eid period then. Will the biz be back to normal on that festive?? >.<

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  108. well if 3rd sept then u can go all out (any clubs). bring friends, dont go alone. a group of 2-3 people can do better. or any local friends might very helpfull.

    Dave

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  109. Thanks Dave. Will be going with a friend. No local friends though..hope to make some once there :)

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  110. Danghut Clubs in JKT? Can anyone direct me to any clubs in JKT that feature Danghut?
    thanks

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  111. For dangdut clubs in Jakarta, you can try Asmoro or some of the bars in Mangga Besar near Travel Hotel..

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  112. Hi,
    I will be there this coming thursday night but we do not arrive until 11:30pm. Can you suggest somewhere to go that stays open late.
    Thx

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  113. Hi,
    Me and my friend, Indians males, 45+ shall stay in Jakarta on 22 Oct,(monday)while returning from Jogja. Can you suggest a budget girl friendly hotel in action area, where we can pick up girls on mondy evening ?
    Thanks.

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  114. Hi,
    I've tried Alexis, Travel, and Classic! But they are all far from where I'm now stationed. Anything closer to South Jakarta? Have not tried exploring Blok M. Anything like the hotels I mentioned above in Blok M? Please share info.
    Cheers
    Male 32 Filipino

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  115. Can anyone tell me, why mostly clubs like BATS, CJ, red square just full with hooker, i rather called "infected by chicken" as 2 or 3 years back, those places are the best place for party .

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  116. Hello everyone,
    for some weird reason, my initial 2 posts have disappeared!
    anyways,
    Would greatly appreciate your help.
    I'm a male located at the Marriott Mayflower apartment hotel in Sudirman Plaza (Indofood tower)
    Anything close to this place ;) (probably walking distance but then i guess i'm wishing too much)
    I dont know what to do on a tuesday night, would BATS be a good Hunting ground???
    Thanks and have fun!
    Phil.

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  117. Hi ,
    I am from India. Aged 30 Male. Looking for decent girl not looking only for money, won't mind hosting her at hotel.
    Staying in Park lane Jakarta till 20th Oct 2012.

    Please reply in this thread with contact details.

    Looking forward......

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  118. Hey Indian Guy, i see you're within a few kilometers from my location.
    Did you find anything good?
    Please share!
    Phil.

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  119. Will i find a girl in the bar of Mulia htel to pick up? Am staying in Mulia

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  120. Change in travel plan. Staying for one more week.
    I have been at Mulia very price not satisfied.

    Looking for good girls ready for everything no restrictions.

    Should be value for money.

    Thanks for sharing.

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  121. hello everyone, first of all i found this site very interesting and congratulations for letting everyone write their thoughts here, freely...i am male from istanbul, turkey, 40 yrs old, it will be my first trip to jakarta, and i will be staying at mercure kota hotel at hayam wuruk, i will be there for 3 nights btw 15-18 november. i highly appreciate if anyone can help me as a guide , at daytime i would like to do some sightseeing and of course i would like to meet some girls to party at evenings..i have travelled many countries in the world but as far as i read here, that will be a unique experience for me...as i will be alone, it can also be nice to meet over some beer with expats living in jakarta..so if you are interested please send me an e-mail....telci1@atlas.net.tr

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  122. Hi...i am a south african indian and will be in jakarta for the first time next week. Looking for a lady to spend a few days entertaining me and showing me a bit of jakarta...easy to find??

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  123. hi, I'm a male asian expatriate living in jakarta.
    Would like to meet somebody who can arrange models or good looking girls for party next week.
    My bosses are coming over and I need to make arrangement for this.

    Thanks and Cheers

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  124. Sorry for get to0 add in my email address, atoipool@yahoo.co.id
    Waiting for the emails.

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  125. This site is so informative..anyway ladies and gents, I'm going to Jakarta this 7th December for a week. If anybody is there, it would be great to party together. Aside that, I was wondering if there is any places that is filled with classy rich Indonesian woman that wine and dine?..besides Loewy and Social house..does anybody know??..

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  126. Try hotel restaurant, Satoo for example, a lot of socialites have dinner there

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  127. Cork and Screw, Wisma kodel or plaza indonesia

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  128. hello everybody
    I am an american guy an staying in Mercure kota hotel in wuruk area. first of all, can aanybody share a good call girl number with me? secondly, is there any closeby safe dancing bar to my hotel where i can find girls for money. and thirdly how much i should pay for a girl for a night? my mail addy is love_valley@hotmail.com

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  129. Where's the best palce to meet hot girls that are not hookers Thursday, Friday and Saturday night?

    And what about durung the day?

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  130. X2 Club will be a place to meet hot girls that are not hookers..

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  131. what if you are an Arab mid 40s but you are loaded with cash is it easy to find these girls

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  132. Hi , male 25 , kelapa gading , anybody know whats the deal with mulia executive club located in boulevard street kelapa gading ?

    Thanks .

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  133. Hey I'm anna 26 years old.. Chinse girl, looking for any caucasian to hang out with, networking, or just visiting club together..definitely not ayam or gold digger lol..

    I used to go clubbing alone, and always bring attention from several strange ppl..so I think I need some clubbing bules friends..hehe..

    My best spot: is x2, loewe, and skye resto,Been to dragonfly and immigrant, don't like the music that much

    Here's my email: annamarielie@yahoo.com

    Check my pic on:
    www.facebook.com/gorgeous.26

    Enjoy jakarta all.. :D

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  134. hye ladies and gentlemen. why dont we organise a small gathering end of this year, just to know each other and hunting for 'normal ladies' hehehe.. i've been here in Jakarta for years, have tried most of the places like Classic, Malioboro, King Cross,Crown, Millenium, Milles, Stadium, Kemangs area Travel and many other small spa's and clubs..

    but most of my experiences were 'pay for sex'. Never success to get "have fun" or normal relationship :(

    Should i spent more time at X2, Immigrants and Kemang area for a normal girl? hehe


    Many Indonesian girls are very beautiful, adorable and cute, thats my personal views from my experiences. hehe. Wish some day will manage to end up with good looking Indonesian lady with good manners.

    Back to the first idea, why dont the admin of Jakarta100bars organise a gathering? i'm sure many would love to participate :)

    Cheers!

    Indonesian neighbouring country >>
    ROY

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  135. Hey Roy,

    That sounds like a good idea. Been to Jakarta twice and definitely looking out for more buddies to party together.

    Let me know if you guys are heading over there, i'm just 2 hours flight away :)

    ohhsseth@gmail.com

    Regards,
    Seth

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  136. Hi all!
    I'm an Indonesian girl, my name is Anggi and I'm 19 years old. Tomorrow night, 8 pm at DragonFly Jakarta, there's a NYE Celebration with a BANG! EDM's rising star Gregori Klosman. I have 2 free entries, too bad I haven't found any companion, yet. Is there anyone out here interested with this and planning to go with me? if there is, just let me know by invite my pin BB: 20f3427d or my phone number: 083873147080. I'm really looking forward a companion. Uhm actually, I'm looking for a bule one, a good one and a nice one guy to go with me.

    Thankyou, cheers! xx

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  137. Im a 25 year old male chinese expat moving soon to jakarta. any places you can suggest where I can meet normal girls?

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  138. Apologies for breaking this up, but I suspect that people will tune out if I put it all in a single post.

    1. If Thailand has taught me anything, it's that walking around with your dick in your hand and your tongue on the floor is a recipe for trouble. Jakarta was crazy when I last visited in 2004, but I dont recall women throwing themselves at every foreigner - pale or otherwise - to walk through the doors of a bar or club. I'm stunned by the sheer naivete and desperation of some of the men posting here, particularly guys from India and China. 'How do I mingle with girls ?' - wtf ? I guess its a break from the serious mongers on many nightlife boards, but it blows my mind.

    See 2. below

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  139. 2. How's this for a concept - go to a bar, order a drink, sit back and relax. If you make eye contact with a woman, smile - if she smiles back, ask if you can buy her a drink. If none of that works, or you just don't like the bar, move on to the next bar. If all you want is sex, you can save a hell of a lot of time and money by simply paying for it and getting a good night's sleep once that biological need is taken care of. Personally, I'd rather go out, have a few drinks, meet some people and laugh about whatever seems funny at the time - it's not rocket science.

    See 3. below

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  140. 3. Finally, it costs what it costs - if you read the individual bar reviews, its clear that some of the Ayam are asking ridiculous prices (3.3mil IDR - not in this lifetime). Whatever they quote you, respond 'Right, so that's for you AND your friend, all night ?'. Playful tone, lots of smiling, but make it clear that you didn't just land on earth. It might all be an act, but the more professional working girls also know how to have a good time in the process - its the burnouts who've forgotten everything except the paypacket. As soon as the smile fades and her voice hardens, walk away - simple.

    Good luck.

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  141. Forgot to thank thibaud for this wonderful resource - kudos, man. Also enjoyed the comments from the women who have taken the time to post here - a refreshing change of pace from the usual 'where do I get pussy and what does it cost ?' posts on this site. Still, as someone said earlier, 'it is what it is' and nightlife in Jakarta seems to be all about sex, drugs and rock'n'roll : choose your poison ;)

    Adios, Amigos !

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  142. Dear everyone here.
    What a very informative forum to assist man for the right way in dealing Jakarta bar girl etc.
    I just visited Jkrt on 5-7Jan2013. Helped by my friend (local peolpe), I've hanging around Classic, Malioboro, Emporium and Senayan City shopping mall for the purpose to get an indonesian ladies to be my wife (hopefully).
    Unfortunately, what I've foun,if it's good looking (like a filmstar or model), she will be gold digger. If she is nice and lovely, the look no so nice to be looked. My Indonesian friend said, Jakarta is the best place to seek beatiful lady to be wife because they wish better living with expat.
    So, nex week, I'll be in Jakarta again to find any model-looking girl who willing to be my so called- perfect wife.

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  143. Right, so in 2-3 nights in Jakarta you honestly expected to find a stunner to share the rest of your life with ? My advice is to avoid Thailand completely - they will eat you alive and leave what's left for the Soi dogs.

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  144. Indian guy living in the USA visiting Jakarta for 2 weeks looking for a friend to accompany me to Bali for a weekend. Just do not wish to go by myself.

    I am staying at the Crowne Plaza. Send me an email at sssr75 at Yahoo dot com.

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  145. yeah..i wish to find a good jakarta girl to share life with me. But doesnt mean just by 2-3 days trip to jakarta. i'm planning to do the 'searching' every 2 or 3 week because i'm just living in the nigboring country of indo. i believe by another 3 or 4 trip to jakarta, i'll found one best and suit to me...then i'll share the story here.

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  146. Hi Everyone... I'm Livie, I'm an attractive 26 almost 27 years Indonesian girl. I have professional career and earn good money here and yes i'm well educated, it means... i'm not looking for money from all of you. I just feel alone sometimes in this city. I could get friends in this city, I become a member of gym place in Plasa Indonesia etc. But again, i haven't much time to do social activity or build a relationship so far. If you interest to hang out or do something fun please tell me. Regards - Livie

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  147. Hi Everyone,
    I'm a Malaysian Chinese. I'm going to Jakarta on 1 Feb for business trip and will stay in Harris Suites fX Sudirman for 1 night. Where is the nearest club that i can go party? Anyone would like to join the party?

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  148. Livie, you seem like a nice girl from your message, but I believe most of the guys who come to Thibaud's blog are looking for one thing : sex. I'm no better or worse, but I think it needs to be said - no problem if that is what both parties are looking for, but you can do better. You speak the language and you understand the culture - a massive advantage. Good luck.

    Regards,
    MrWorldwide

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  149. MrWorldwide....I'm a nice girl indeed but doesn't mean i will sleep all day long after work. I used to be like party when i was in college too, long time ago i guess - and make a note i'm not looking for a relationship so man or woman who wanna have bit crazy in this city i'm so open for them. I'm a traveler girl my self, no worries sir. If u wanna find a woman for one night stand or something like that let's go to somewhere... we can talk in there till u find one. I will pretend become a stranger of you, pay my own bill and just disappear i wanna dance start 23.00 - 02.00. I prefer going with someone then talk with any man directly from club (I almost totally alone here), doesn't matter i will go home alone. :)

    Regards
    Livie :)

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  150. Livie,
    i really dont understand, why you r totally alone in jakarta. Is it too hard to get boyfreind there?

    -Sam30

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  151. Sam30, I suspect that Livie just wants to go out and have a good time without being mistaken for 'fair game' by men. That's just my interpretation - apologies if I'm off track here. We also need to be sensitive to the fact that Asian women are often placed under *intense* pressure to marry as they approach 30 - if Livie wants some freedom in this stage in her life, I say more power to her. Work colleagues around her age may have very different priorities - been there, got the t-shirt. I'm normally cynical when an attractive women professes to be 'lonely', but what does she have to gain here ? Let's hope she can find her 'drinking buddy' and have some fun !

    Livie : you go, girl :)

    MrWorldwide

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  152. Dear All...
    I actually laugh red all the interpretation of you Mr worldwide, you are absolutely right. It's funny and i'm smiling. There is no big deal become alone here. I'll give you all a clue. I'm a creative from one of the biggest production house here. My work field surrounded by charming people like actor or actress - I also the member of celebrity fitness and i do exercise regularly (can say i'm very friendly and nice, poeple like me too especially men who just interest with physical performance) and top of that i'm a member of other social activity but beyond of that i like to live alone. It's not hard to get a bf here. I just like to walk away from that for the moment, out of routine so yes, I'm totally alone if u do understand about what i talking about.

    Regards
    Livie

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  153. Hey guys! I'm 26,decent looking and interesting in traveling to Indonesia. I make a great living...I could easily bring and spend $12,000-$15,000 for the month(not to brag but just give an example). So I'm not broke and I'm comfortable spending.

    I want to get laid pretty much everyday when I'm in Indonesia if not every hour ;) I'm ok messing around with the massage parlors and hookers now and then but I would prefer not to pay for sex on the regular. What are my chances of meeting girls there and getting laid everyday without having to pay. I understand dinner and gifts here and there are ok but I just don't want a prostitute.

    - If anyone can answer my question I would appreciate it :)

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  154. Anonymous, if you are a young, 'decent looking' guy with money to spend, I dont see the problem. My experience in various parts of Asia is that it's not hard to spot the working girls - just save the eye contact for those who aren't 'on the meter'. I dont know about the trendier doof-doof emporiums, but in the Ayam bars the working girls are --very-- easy to spot. Any initial attempt to strike up a conversation completely disappears as soon as you indicate that you arent interested - just smile and keep walking.

    The 'dinner and gifts' part of your post makes me wonder if you are looking for a GFE (girlfriend experience). Thibaud has some very interesting blog posts on this - my experience elsewhere in Asia is that it can be a minefield.

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  155. Hi Livie,

    You are most welcome - I hope you find everything you seek. I envy you in that you can go to any of the venues this weekend and rock out - for me, its plane tickets and hotel reservations, but that's life. I look forward to reading your impressions of different venues after a few years away from it all, and I can't wait to revisit Jakarta (+Bandung+Yogya) in 2014 ! Not much of a Bali fan, but Java rocks my world :)

    Terimah Kasih,
    MrWorldwide

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  156. Mr Worldwide....

    It's not like what u think, i almost have no time to hang out in weekend, much thing to do in work. But 1 1/2 month later is my B'day... i wanna out from routine for a while. 27th, hm... don't u think i should get something new in that number? So I would like to be happy if there is any stranger come with me in that day, a night simple party (make a note, i don't smoke neither drink alcohol, used to smoke and drink but 100 percent quite since 2 years ago but still wanna do something fun). I would like going to Singapore, Malaysia and Vietnam 2 weeks before my b'day but it's impossible because my boss just gave me a red light not to go abroad at least till May. So I have no choice, Jakarta only. I went to Bali 2 months ago for 3 weeks but absolutely trapped in my room because work staff. So.... :). Btw 2014 is still far away, i may be will not in Indonesia in that time, but plan may changes in the last minute. If i'm still in Jakarta, let's hang out together. U said u like Java, i originally from Java too, central Java.

    Terima kasih kembali
    Livie :)

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  157. OK. Livie - I've updated May, 2014 in my calendar : 'Fly Livie from Jakarta to Seoul for party, Gangnam style !' :)

    Seriously - enjoy your birthday. Mine is in April, and I'm afraid there will be a lot more candles on THAT cake !

    MrWorldwide

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  158. Mr Worldwide,
    Korea seems too expensive for party only. I wanna have low budged vacation because i need to save money for my next place (long stay in America for my master plan - as i told you may be i will not in Indonesia for 2014). I can spend some money but also thinking about "protection" hehehe otherwise it takes time to apply korean visa. I wanna something practice-- a country that doesn't need visa for Indonesian passport but still thank you for the option. My brother went to Seoul, he said it's expensive in there and Indonesian women who came there, most of them spent money for baby oil or something like that, well i'm not sure, didn't pay any attention about what he said in that time :) Now... My Question is, How many candle that u need for the next b'day of yours? Peace :D and Good luck and be good :)

    Livie

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  159. Hi Livie how are you? Where in Jakarta do you put up? Can we meet on January 29th 2013 at Le Meridian and spend some quality time.

    Sunny

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  160. Sunny...

    Sure, why not? But i can olny spend time for 2 hours after gym around 20.00 - 22.00. Not sure it's late to tell or not, It's January 29th already. Give me ur email, or your number may be, and only for double information it's only about fun no sex. I will check this site soon before gym, and when you do not reply it i'm sure we cannot make it.

    Regards
    Livie

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  161. Hi Livie...

    Sorry I missed your message :( Maybe next time.
    I am scheduled to visit Jakarta again in a months time or so. In any case I am sharing my email id with u so u can drop me an email. It's mohan_nuts@yahoo.com

    Look forward to your email so that we can be in touch and plan to meet up during my next Jakarta visit.

    Regards,
    Sunny

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  162. Hahaha the Internet is such a powerful tool!! Very scary..

    I feel like I already know Jakarta before I even land there.

    So many desperate dudes on here disrespecting Indonesian women..wtf..

    Mat saleh thinking they can dominate asian women makes me sick.

    Mat saleh please step your game up!

    Sunny you are a tool, Livie you are annoying you know you have issues right? just saying? I know I have issues just wondering if you are delusional..

    I'm looking forward to Visiting Jakarta this year =)

    Kind regards

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  163. Young Bill, you launch into a tirade about others 'disrespecting Asian women', then ask Livie if she is 'delusional' ? Personally, I'm hoping you never set foot in Jakarta - even the 'desperate dudes' dont make it personal. Grow up.

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  164. Young Bill....

    I smell someone who just out from his box. Do you live in candy store for years young Bill? starting from now try to buy a globe and if you are lucky you will understand if you have bigger issues than all of us! and i wonder where are you come from?

    Regards
    Livie

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  165. It's been months since I was in Jakarta, used to go regularly.
    Anyhow, I have a stopover in JKT on monday (04/02) till Wednesday (06/02).
    Not actively looking for any action, just want to chill in a club/bar and see how it goes from there.
    Anybody up for it?

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  166. I hates ayam in club its make my country bad in front of bule, a lot of nice indo girl for find good relationship, so pls dnt think all indo girl wants bule. -C-

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  167. -C-

    I'm not ayam my self, but i don't hate the "ayam" in club. There is nothing bad or nothing good from my point of view. Every country in this world has their own place for "Ayam" (correct me if i'm wrong please). I think those "bules" come to the right blog ( which the blogger do research a lot to give us any information - even i'm Indonesian girl i take this blog as new stuff for me), there are always some options - they are not stupid, if they want something different like paypal or something like that they wouldn't be here and find other blogs to contribute. If you are not ayam, you shouldn't think bad. Having ayam is becoming issue for many country in this world not only in Indonesia, so don't think the men under estimate the Indonesian girl, it's just a momentum, realize or not for some rude men, they just underestimate their self to put his legs in bad words. Everywhere is same. As long as there is no sexual abuse i think there is called a mutual symbiosis. There are always two side and like it or not this is the phenomenon. Don't you think it's better for them, for us? as "who is not ayam" when they are looking for ayam for temporary sex relationship than ruin girls by hunting them in street or something like that?. Now, let's take the opposite, you are an Indonesian, and would like come to Holland, Qatar or Rusia or another countries i'm pretty sure you would like frankly blog to help u understanding about that countries as well not only the good side but also the bad side. Nah, you will get some information about "ayam" in that countries but doesn't mean all the girls in that country are ayam, it's same... I'm sure everybody in the world believe and agree if MOST of Indonesian women has a caring heart, loyal, faithful and super nice! My dear C, please do not get emotional. Just take it easy. :)

    Regards
    Livie

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  168. just got in the hotel, was stuck in traffic for 2 hours!
    Anyway, too beat to go out tonight (maybe).
    Who's up for some shit and giggles tomorrow?
    leaning towards Immigrants and Red Square, good choice?

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  169. Hello everybody, I will be visiting next week and stay at Santika Premier Hotel(JL. KS Tubun no.7 Slipi). Any good bars, clubs in the area ? Any advice would be appreciated.....
    Jack

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  170. Livie seems like you like dribbling off on some crack shit haha. (You have no idea about what I'm talking about, its ok) I like you.

    I live in Perth Australia, Malay born, earn 6 figures, travel around frequently so I have learnt to respect all cultures.

    (Anonymous) I'm not taking it personally? You are a fucking clown. And I will step my foot through your face!..haha just joking. You are entitled to your opinion.

    Enjoy the New Year everybody =)

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  171. whos coming to dragonfly tonight? hot girls only, look for the rig yeow

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  172. Im indonesian girl, i go to most place that u named it, the club that u said full of "ayam", but i think u're wrong to judge that all woman who go to that place is prostitutes or hostesses, not all of them. Im telling you because me with all my friends go to that place because we fell that sometimes club with foreign guest more polite and more friendly. We go to that place not looking for money, sex or relationship because we're working and have a good salary and because we're so busy we dont have time dating seriously with men. If you see girls with louis vuitton, chanel or any branded accecories in that club not all of them are gift from men, we're working hard to buy that things as a reward for our self. So please stop judging all indonesian woman are like that. Thank you

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  173. Hi all, I stumbled across this site and find it intriguing. Been to Jakarta many times and am here again for another month.

    As a white English male, I'm curious to know where to meet western girls here, even if just for good conversation (or more, or not... no dramas). No offence to the intelligent Asian ladies out there, but the whole $$$ stereotype kills it before it begins for me. Rightly or wrongly. Sorry to stereotype, I know that's not fair to some of you, but i like western girls and they don't seem to be here / available.

    I might head to Tiga Puluh tmr and Sat night (8-9 Feb) and see if any of you are there. Just for fun. Otherwise, I'm staying in Kemang.

    Cheers,

    James.

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  174. http://www.jakarta100bars.com/2010/04/girls-night-out-jakarta-nightlife-best.html

    James, lets see if I have this right - you arent interested in Asian women as you fear many in the nightclubs may be working girls, but you are going to start your search for 'nice ladies' in one of the most notorious Ayam bars in Jakarta ? Tigah Puluh does attract the odd Bule woman, but it's also wall-to-wall hookers. I'd suggest you start with thibaud's blog entry and work from there.

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  175. tonite planing to go to some decent club. hate hooker. not cause i hav to pay but it seems very unnatural and plastic when you share ur feeling in the bed whm u hav paid to be thr. anywaysdrp me a msg if someone just want to spent some quality time. male 30

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  176. Hi just wondering where's a good place to hang out on Sunday night - preferably with good music and some eye candy. Im in transit just for one day.

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  177. hey livie,

    read your post here you still going out sometimes and to witch bars/clubs?
    im staying in jakarta march 9th so maybe we can have some fun .

    greets andre you cam mail me at andre120266@hotmail.com

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  178. why do you wierdos feel the need to have to pay for sex either your all sinfully ugly and cant get anything in your countries of birth ugly pedos bet

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  179. Right - sinfully ugly pedos - that's us. That's why we go to expensive clubs, pay exorbitant prices for drinks and endure Jakarta's hideous traffic when we could just fly to Cambodia and pay 30USD for sex ....

    Please keep your pathetic generalisations to yourself. And your mum, of course.

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  180. Hi Livie,

    I'm a Singaporean and I come to Jkt every month. Maybe we can meet up one. Can you email me at: 09.surabi@gmail.com. Tq.

    Don

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  181. Reading this site for the first time .... Seems quite interesting...if anyone , maybe livie, wanna catch up and hang out...share a drink etc, drop me a mail at cityspace69@gmail.com

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  182. Hi Livie,

    I will be going to Cikarang on 15th March to 20th March. Can we meet for a coffee?

    my email is chenweelee@gmail.com

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  183. I am staying at Sultan Hotel over this weekend. Any place near to have good entertaintment including girls/lb's? Thanks

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  184. Can anyone suggest places to head to, to meet the very well educated, business minded type crowds, preferably places open earlier in the day or after work hours?

    JK

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  185. I think Stadium is what you are looking for. Serious 'business minded' types in there, and they will still be open when the sun comes up over Jakarta.

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  186. Hi Indonesia girl with louis vuitton
    Like you say please dont judge all of us also that we assume all the girls at the club are "ayam"
    we too love a fine companion for a chat n drink after a stressful day at work.
    Hope i will bump into you one of this day.
    Rocky

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  187. Hi staying at Kelapa gading hotel any good place to spend couple of hours chatting, dancing n drinking

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  188. Just new to Jakarta,going to station for at least 2 years, So excited in reading this webpage,can't wait to experience the nightlife in jakarta,will be alone in this coming weekend,is it looks very weird to go Alexis alone??

    Jason

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  189. Hi Livie,

    How are you buddy? I am back in Jakarta for few days, can we catch up? I am at Ritz Carlton

    Cheers,
    Sunny

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  190. Hi,
    Will be in Jakarta a couple of times in April. Would like to meet up with a young non complicated girl who can introduce me to the sights, smells, food and nightlife in Jakarta. Iam an Asian, married, looking for just (?) companionship,kisses and fun.. If keen, do please drop a line :jakssam2011@gmail.com. Your photo would make my day :)!
    Love
    Sam

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  191. Hi Sunny ...

    Before i drop u an email, please tell me are u a married guy? I'm not hang out with married man. Sure we can meet if u are single (even i'm not looking for a relationship but i think it's not proper for me to hang out with a married man), i just returned to Jakarta, but will be busy for days.

    Livie

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  192. Hi all,

    Just a question from a solo traveller. I will be travelling in May or June to Jakarta. Probably will stay there for 2 weeks and do some sightseeing in Jakarta and also enjoy Jakarta's nightlife before I visit other places in Java. I was wondering Is there a nice and good girl who want to meet with me and hang out?
    For your information; I am NOT married. I'm a nice, gentle and goodlooking single man from Europe (not caucasion, mixed race). Email me for more information and maybe we will meet eachother then!
    Roberto_32@hotmail.nl
    cheers!

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  193. Hi Livie,

    I am very much single (unmarried). Do drop me an email when you free.

    Cheers,
    Sunny

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  194. yeah...will be in Jak from 21st to 24th March. Need hotel, food, get drunk, live music, live shows and real sex. How much?

    cheers...

    first timer shy man

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