tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2823612934080461713.post4762111557465690078..comments2024-03-17T17:30:00.733-07:00Comments on Jakarta100bars - Nightlife & Party Guide - Best Bars & Nightclubs: Is It Better to Date a Javanese or a Sundanese Girl?Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger35125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2823612934080461713.post-31037972148448540472023-02-15T08:39:36.407-08:002023-02-15T08:39:36.407-08:00This article is similar to an astrology chart ... ...This article is similar to an astrology chart ... you can believe it or not.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2823612934080461713.post-5290773889135105852023-02-09T22:29:44.270-08:002023-02-09T22:29:44.270-08:00Nice article. My ex-wife's family were Minangk...Nice article. My ex-wife's family were Minangkabau, you missed them entirely hahahaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2823612934080461713.post-510163065535673712023-02-04T11:50:37.308-08:002023-02-04T11:50:37.308-08:00How she lazy at home? You guys expect women to wor...How she lazy at home? You guys expect women to work and some work and go to school, and you want them to come home and cook and clean too, women get tired and they are not robots Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2823612934080461713.post-56239446509395858292022-01-26T17:21:28.428-08:002022-01-26T17:21:28.428-08:00well, cirebon is different than any place in west ...well, cirebon is different than any place in west java. there are many sundanese and javanese in cirebon. maybe he married with javanese one.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2823612934080461713.post-23952857598083665742021-07-12T06:30:27.614-07:002021-07-12T06:30:27.614-07:00Hi folks.. I am an indonesian-chinese man and i...Hi folks.. I am an indonesian-chinese man and i'd love to share my experiences about indonesian women. <br /><br />Sundanese girlfriend(s) : partygoer, talkative, well groomed, naturally beautiful, absolutely great sex, materialistic, easily cheating, and the most prominent thing is how their parents, siblings, families and close friends had no shame at all on using you and your money for their benefit, disguised in sad stories, illness, debts, or another made-up life dramas.<br /><br />Javanese girlfriend(s) : calm, a bit passive submissive, sex may vary but not always great, not as fashionable as sundanese, dilligent and quite a hard worker, money saver, easily maintained, not as fanatic as sundanese about religion.<br /><br />Bataknese girlfriend : straightforward, well educated, ambitious, speak quite loudly, a bit feminist, hard to control, sex were average, headstrong and stubborn, always ready to argue even on small stuffs. <br /><br />as for laziness, i found that it depends on the person itself, even if she is a well educated indonesian women.<br /><br />Manadonese girlfriend : beautiful, stylish, a true money spender, mostly are christian, nice sex, cheated easily on wealthier men. quite similar character as the sundanese.<br /><br />It is a pity that i had no experiences with Balinese women or Other indonesian races. <br /><br />Please share me your stories.<br />Cheers! <br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2823612934080461713.post-14311347587777923392020-12-27T20:04:46.189-08:002020-12-27T20:04:46.189-08:00Based on myself, I am hardworker and independent g...Based on myself, I am hardworker and independent girl, but also materialistic. I'm Javanese which has strict bounded culture from my family. I think if we talk about personality and character, it depends on education, background, religion and society culture. But yes, that's true that mostly Javanese ppl are looking so good and calm, but they talk something behind. That's suck lmao. But if we are talking about appearance, mostly indonesian ppl like light skin so sundanese and manadonese are better. But if ppl like such an exotic complexion, javanese and balinese is good to chose because they generally have darker skin.Aya Pintokohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16435644754227078649noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2823612934080461713.post-54121032035245406652020-10-02T05:11:55.351-07:002020-10-02T05:11:55.351-07:00Sundanese and Manado women have almost similar ch...Sundanese and Manado women have almost similar characters, women like to date well-established and rich men ,yes they are beautiful no doubt but to choose their partners very carefullyTimihttps://www.jakarta100bars.com/2016/07/dating-javanese-sundanese-girl.html#comment-editornoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2823612934080461713.post-5958461204740803642020-07-04T23:08:18.819-07:002020-07-04T23:08:18.819-07:00What about mixed blood? I read your article about ...What about mixed blood? I read your article about indonesian women. And yeah. I have to say that, we are unity in diversity. Beauty in diversity. Im mixed blood. My mother is sundanesse my dad is bataknesse. Purely. But i was born and raised in jakarta. I like my mother physically,skinny body,white skin,vegetarian and long brown hair. Typical sundanesse girl..but i like my father in characteristic. He is strict and well educated man. Outspoken and confident. Thats why i still in law school until now :) XoXooooAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11925277124012015768noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2823612934080461713.post-28943930881156838032020-05-29T00:44:13.024-07:002020-05-29T00:44:13.024-07:00Hi, I'm Javanese girl and I'm from Yogyaka...Hi, I'm Javanese girl and I'm from Yogyakarta. I'm agree with "nrimo" culture because it's thing my parent always taught me since I was kid. Not just "nrimo" culture, but in Java especially in Yogyakarta, we have others 'javanese philosophy'that always teach us to not be arrogant, always down to earth and have manner. You can look other 'javanese philosophy' and google will show you up hihihi <br /><br />The myth about javanese would unlucky if married with Sundanese still happen here. My dad used to tell me about it, but, it was not just a myth. The different characters between javanese and Sundanese are the reason. <br /><br />Javanese people are money-saver, they prefer to save their money than use it for not-important things. For example, we don't really need expensive new clothes if we still have other clothes that still in good condition. It's our "Nrimo" culture. We prefer to save our money for school and other stuff we would need in future. My experience: I have bank account since I was in elementary school, I can buy my own laptop with it in middle school. I don't need to ask more money to my parent :D <br /><br />Sundanese people are money-spender and lazy at same time. I have university-friends who come from Bandung that were studying in Yogyakarta and they always spending money for useless thing. They love party and stuff which I'm not into it. So the reason why javanese and Sundanese can't stick together because the characters of money oriented are different. Fyi, money problems are most reason of divorce in Indonesia. <br /><br />Other things, Javanese are hardworker and educated. For example, in Yogyakarta where top universities in Indonesia located. We can easily got job abroad. That's make thousand of students from other provinces come here to studying, in the end of day, they don't want to come back to their damn hometown and gave bad social impacts sometimes. <br /><br />About sexual thing, yeah that's true if javanese are bad in sex things. Sex without married are still taboo here. We mostly not doing sex before married. How could we great at thing of we didn't ever do it? Lol. Most of Javanese girls from yogyakarta and I still stuck on the culture hehehe <br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2823612934080461713.post-89518899970259959942020-04-29T14:50:57.775-07:002020-04-29T14:50:57.775-07:00Your story sounds like so many others that have ch...Your story sounds like so many others that have chosen to get involved with Sundanese women. As someone who lived for almost five years in Bandung, allow me to say that Sunda women are beautiful, however, their character(s) is pretty bad. They have no boundaries when it comes to cheating on their men and they will not think twice to have you eat rice and some vegetable each day so they can wear gold around their necks. Sundanese women are great for sex and having fun, Manadonese women are great for sex and having fun--until they're not! Never marry with either of these ethnic groups in Indonesia and your marriage may have a better chance of survival. Follow this website and have fun, enjoy yourself, it is better to pay women to leave rather than give them a claim of half your assets in Indonesia--please do not doubt these words of advice.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2823612934080461713.post-44031529117043285352019-12-04T17:16:57.458-08:002019-12-04T17:16:57.458-08:00Sorry it was so heart breaking to read your articl...Sorry it was so heart breaking to read your article, full of stereotype :(<br />Me as sundanese girl, I born in a good finance family background, but I chose to pursue my master with my own money, I worked so hard, I spent some of my money to pamper my self. Every girls can be pretty with their own hands, is it wrong to use our money to shopping? To make us look presentable? It is not for anyone it is for ourselves, until now I never ask guys to buy me a house, jewellery, car, or any other expensive gifts, that is too much if you said sundanese girls are materialistic, I am local sundanese, we love our family so much, and we can do great house chores since we do care so much about cleanliness. I don't know about the other ethnics, but please none of those girls (manadonese, chinese Indonesian, batak etc) are able to bully's<br />Every person has their own stories and you can't judge them, look yourself in to mirror.<br />There is no such things as you said, don't make assumptions Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14356437152451475757noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2823612934080461713.post-47264440777639075352019-10-18T22:17:57.183-07:002019-10-18T22:17:57.183-07:00Hello, I am just reading this and it's very co...Hello, I am just reading this and it's very cool.<br />I am a Javanese girl and I admit that Sundanese girls are very beautiful and good at caring themselves, Manado girls as well.<br />this article is very helpful to illustrate the inheritance of each ethnic in Indonesia.<br />However, it would be better if you (as an expat) can get a clear background story of the woman you want to approach. a perfect combination of ethnicity, educational background along with the environment where they live will create their own unique character (and you will see whether it's match with you or not).<br />Like my own experience, I stick with some of the nature of my ethnic heritage, but the others are based on my educational background and the environment in the city I migrate. <br />as a Javanese girl, I am not entirely can hide my feelings, even I dare to argue for things that I feel are not according to my principles. I also do not hesitate to express my feelings (although it is not in every situation). <br />Good position in a company also can make a girl more rational (sometimes picky) to choose a man who she wants to date. Not always about the money, but they know what they want and worth for.<br /><br />Anyway, that's my opinion. And once again this article is very remarkable, Thanks for sharing :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2823612934080461713.post-2338871991758606702019-10-06T05:36:35.520-07:002019-10-06T05:36:35.520-07:00Totally Agree on the Batak bit. Totally Agree on the Batak bit. None https://www.blogger.com/profile/09877396955635740067noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2823612934080461713.post-41585851163674620502019-07-20T13:48:13.919-07:002019-07-20T13:48:13.919-07:00hi You very interesting talking bout sunda girls. ...hi You very interesting talking bout sunda girls. May you more tell me please bout sunda? in my waAnonymous Rhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11517505958872133627noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2823612934080461713.post-30588818367845469922019-04-02T14:31:24.843-07:002019-04-02T14:31:24.843-07:00Really really agree! Mine is javanese btwReally really agree! Mine is javanese btwAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2823612934080461713.post-3718113152150420012018-12-15T00:17:20.009-08:002018-12-15T00:17:20.009-08:00Hi im Javanese Girl but grow up in Bandung (Sundan...Hi im Javanese Girl but grow up in Bandung (Sundanese). Well just want to say: i aggrement about Javanese and Sundanese Character. But still, its depends on the person. Although the original nature remains like their culture. ��Tirta Cetrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01376131976888644084noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2823612934080461713.post-49940513381506778402018-11-17T09:09:20.317-08:002018-11-17T09:09:20.317-08:00I am half black, half indonesian (my mom is Javane...I am half black, half indonesian (my mom is Javanese). I married a Sundanese girl a few years ago. <br /><br /><br />I was interested in her because She was beautiful with natural curly hair (like a black woman's), She has an Amazing body (she is thicker and curvier than most indonesian girls (but not fat), She is straightforward and honest, and she is very intelligent and outgoing. She's a go-getter, which I loved about her. The down side is, although she tries very hard not to be, she is very materialistic and a money vacuum. And she is very self-centered/selfish. She'll use you and anything to her advantage and it can sometimes feel like you're being used.<br /><br />Things didn't work out between us because she was a very lost soul (and suffered from depression as well). She is very sympathetic, but ultimately a very shallow person, due to her environment growing up, moving from place to place. She can never hold interest in one thing for a long time. Always pick up, appreciate, get bored, drop it, and move on to a new obsession. That's basically what happened with us. She lost interest in me, lost sexual attraction (partly due to her depression too though), and ultimately we separated. Haven't gone through with the divorce quite yet.<br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2823612934080461713.post-35679175320744786162018-07-11T00:35:04.099-07:002018-07-11T00:35:04.099-07:00the most beautiful handsome specially women / men...the most beautiful handsome specially women / men are like sundanese,tionghoa and menadonese<br />can if you want who have a calm nature with an exotic look maybe Javanese is the right choice<br />if you want to have people who work hard maybe more to bataknese or balineseAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2823612934080461713.post-86891872548680950912018-06-22T21:31:34.512-07:002018-06-22T21:31:34.512-07:00Yeah I like this article.. I'm chinese born In...Yeah I like this article.. I'm chinese born Indonesian and I've been studied abroad for at least 5 years. When I coming back to Indonesia. I find this article 80% correct. As an Indonesian I didn't realize it since I've grown up in such situation until I come back for other country. But for many foreigners, it will be easily noticeable.<br />I have chinese born Indonesian as my girlfriend (she is from Borneo), she has a lot of different characters compare to my previous girlfriend (chinese born Indonesian who lived in west java, so I can consider her to have a solid sundanese culture). My borneo girlfriend has stronger will and independent compare to my sundanese girlfriend.<br />Now, I have another co-worker from Sulawesi. She is not my girlfriend but we accidentally close due to some reason (work related), she is half chinese and half bataknese, and guess what? Our work-relationship is like a cat and a dog (although nowadays cat and dog can be friend), even for a small things she will mad. But beside that character, actually bataknese girl is care and loving (among sundanese, borneo, and bataknese), but maybe because their ancestors used to live in the mountain so they need to shout each other when they are talk. :)<br />Finally, background education have a big part of their ability to tolerate other person.<br /><br />My conclusion:<br />Sundanese: beauty in nature, acceptance, lazy (treat them like a princess an she will be yours)<br />Borneo: beauty, slightly independent, need motivation but they can work (you must lead her in every situtation but she will follow you)<br />Bataknese: wild beauty, strong will, very independent, hardwork (treat her as your partner, somehow she will follow you in her way)<br /><br />I don't know bout Balinese, but I have some Bali friends. They are very polite and good working habits. But I don't really have a close friendship/relationship yet with Balinese.J.MDnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2823612934080461713.post-37299190601095684412017-10-21T22:02:39.983-07:002017-10-21T22:02:39.983-07:00Very entertaining article...what about Balinese? Very entertaining article...what about Balinese? Winogabonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17964533526430393150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2823612934080461713.post-22785251288714559512017-10-18T02:09:02.894-07:002017-10-18T02:09:02.894-07:00I think the most beautiful girl in indonesia is da...I think the most beautiful girl in indonesia is dayaknese they are base in kalimantan and they are humble tooAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2823612934080461713.post-59545516994762681612017-07-08T00:46:58.998-07:002017-07-08T00:46:58.998-07:00And you must be Javanese...And you must be Javanese...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2823612934080461713.post-86626755007342109582017-07-07T21:24:00.685-07:002017-07-07T21:24:00.685-07:00Sundanese ethnic is more better or beautiful than...Sundanese ethnic is more better or beautiful than another ethinc in Indonesia then Minahasan is the best , but for me javanese is good looking to all .. cheers !Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2823612934080461713.post-90351774100243380072017-06-08T01:01:26.574-07:002017-06-08T01:01:26.574-07:00Hello, i agree about your opinion,, i am javanesse...Hello, i agree about your opinion,, i am javanesse used to live in Bogor West Java, most of them are sundanese,, i saw many young girl dating old rich man there,, i just shocked n i asked to my sudanese friend,, she said some of her friend dating old rich man, n that girl proud of it, it seems they can attract wealthy guy..<br />sundanese more fashionable anyway, they always make any efforts to looks atrractive ( style, makeup ).. and they more talk straightforwardly if we compare with javanese..<br />different region different character bcz different enviroment factor,, but sometimes it depends on how their personality bcz i had sundanese girl, she really hardworker to helped her parents financial problem..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2823612934080461713.post-43117813729062426772017-06-05T23:18:16.934-07:002017-06-05T23:18:16.934-07:00I should say, not all of them was like you've ...I should say, not all of them was like you've said. It all depends on the background (education, which area they live,religion, they own character, etc.) Sundanese could be also "nrimo".. javanese could be also materialistic.. depend on "luck" to find a right girl! 😋Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com